Dating too many men
“People should stop counting the number of sexual partners they’ve had and start counting the numbers of orgasms they’ve had with partners,” she said.
“You will be a happier person if that’s what you’re tallying.” But my 36-year-old friend—the elder statesman among all my respondents—said the best thing for men to do is forget the number and forget the details.
”) There are a lot of reasons that Schumer’s character might be starting to freak him out by that point in any other straight man, whose relationship suffered a crisis when the girlfriend’s too-high number came to light.
In 2015, a woman’s number just doesn’t seem a big deal to me.
It’s that the women’s sexual pasts lead these men to judge themselves.
’ That doesn’t mean she’s not a sweet girl.” Another 32-year-old, who is engaged to his partner of three years, likewise isn’t fazed by 100. “The men don’t care that she’s had a lot of sexual partners—they care that she’s likely to have sex with them,” she said.For two of the guys, both of whom described their girlfriends’ previous numbers as high, learning specifics about their girlfriends’ exes bothered them much more than the numbers.