First move dating
After matching with Ben, we talked for about a month.Our schedules were really busy, which was a blessing because we got to know each other before we met in real life.The trick is not too be too aggressive but playful and sweet. Laying the Ground Work Making the Best First Move Community Q&A If you've met someone you like, or even really like, you may be seeing stars and feeling the butterflies.I was very much starting fresh and embracing new experiences. I'm pretty shy, and it's not really my nature to make the first move, but I decided since I was already so far out of my comfort zone with all the changes in my life, why not just go for it?I walked up to him after class, introduced myself, and offered to drive him home. I had actually attended undergrad in the same city a couple years before that, so I knew the city well and offered to show him around as an excuse to hang out with him more.When we finally met, we went to a little barbecue joint and it wasn't awkward at all.Like a lot of women, I complained [about being single], but now my theory is, "I had just quit my job, moved to a new city, started my MBA, and broken up with my longterm boyfriend.
Plus, men like to flirt just as much as we do—not to mention they love the attention. I 'ran into him' after stalking him for a couple days outside the school counselor's office.