Rules of college dating
After hearing every set of parents discuss how they met and fell in love, kids have a perception that their ideal fantasy hook-up can and will happen. When adults reflect back on how they fell in love with their partner, they tell you an abbreviated 10-minute version of a story that took them 20 years (multiply by 525,600 to see how many minutes) to live through.
They’re leaving out the parts where they desperately fantasized about celebrities or the popular girls in school.
They’re not looking for just any mate–they’re looking for that perfect soul mate.
Thirty-year-olds looks back at their college selves the same way college students looks back at their preteen selves.
Expectation: All the Hollywood movies make it look like the first kiss is the most important indicator of whether or not a relationship will last.
We had no idea The Rules would become a bestseller…
we just wanted to help women stop making mistakes and get the men of their dreams—and that’s what we still do now, 20 years later!Reviews: “Amazing,” “Inspiring,” “A shot in the arm!