Think about dating
I’ve already expressed my argument for why in two posts: one on how critical it is to find the right life partner and how seriously we should take that quest, and another on why going to bars is a terrible life experience.The first step in ending up with the right person is meeting the right person, and for something so important in our lives, we’ve had for doing it efficiently and intelligently.But is this a positive development or something to be concerned about?Is online dating making the world better and dating more effective, or is something important being lost or sacrificed as a result?The first prominent online dating site was Match.com, which launched in 1995.e Harmony started in 2000, Ok Cupid in 2004, and more recently, a wave of mobile people-swiping apps, like Tinder and Hinge, have become wildly popular.And for people who have no interest in serious dating and just want to find people to hook up with?Online is a much better way to accomplish that too.
You might think "Honey, we need to talk" is a rather benign way to start a discussion, but men often take it as a signal to put up the heat shields, anticipating a barrage of criticism and complaints."People have three layers," says Warren, who speaks with thousands of dads, couples, and families each year."There's a physical, emotional, and spiritual core.You probably don't want to bring up the affair your husband is having over sandwich-making, says Warren, but that may be the perfect time to discuss child-raising strategies or job issues.
The idea is to make conversation a natural part of your relationship, as opposed to an event, capital E.
We should be nice and polite, but it’s also pretty socially acceptable for us to laugh in a dude’s face while rejecting him, while if a guy did that, he would be labeled as a total jerk.