Tips for writing a message on a dating site
Okay, so here are some example online dating messages that you can use.
Remember, you need to tweak these to the girls profile. - Use this when you want to add a something unique to your first message. I'm just your average guy Who's looking for a chance Will you accept this message Like it's our first dance?
If my photos pass the creep test check out my profile. Hi, my name is [Name], I wanted to start off by saying that you have a beautiful family.
so point out a few things that they mention that you have in common. The first thing I noticed was your [Smile, photos, profile, eyes]. When I'm not with family or working, I enjoy [watching movies, listening to music, working out] too. I suggest only contacting girls with kids if you have a job or income, typically they are already dealing with a broke daddy.
The format is simple: Here are a few examples: Though the message is short, it creates a commonality and allows for a dialogue to easily start.
Of course, finding your own tone and voice will definitely help too.
This past week alone I’ve gotten enough poorly executed messages to make me want to curl up in a ball of being-alone-forever.
I try not to lose hope that there can be some genuine connections made through meeting someone off of the internet. I have even made several lasting friends from some of my experiences.
Here’s the deal with the messaging thing, a lot of people have their own theories on how it works, what works best, etc. Others try pick-up-artist “negging.” Some send ridiculously long messages about their background and their overall philosophy and what they’re currently doing with their lives.